Ah yes. P A I N. I didn't even have time to come out to them on my own time.

*hug* hat happened to me- my parents looked through my entire tablet :/

*hug back* it sucks

Are they homophobic?

my mom thinks she FAILED me and my dad is enbyphobic/transphobic

oof.

yep oof indeed

Oop

oOp

OoP

ooP

my boyfriend is drunk

oh god

is it bad?

pretty bad yeah

wait hol up meme chat me about it rl quick, i have to know and i dont want other people to see if its terrible

okay lol

okay

oh god. i can't tell you how sorry I feel for you. i couldn't imagine being forcibly outed.

It sucks. And the worst part is i was ready to tell them then they forced it on me.

oh my god. i still am not out to my parents as a gender-fluid demiboy, and they're not homophobic, but they don't understand a lot of queer identities. the other day I was trying to explain demisexual to them, and they didn't understand, so I doubt they would understand demiboy. but anyways, I couldn't imagine if I were outed like that. :(

let's hope you never are outed like i was. I hope for only good things for you, and everyone in LGBTQ+ community :)

thank you! :)

:P np

:P

Damn. I’m sorry they did that to you. How’d they react?

My mom thinks she failed me and my dad keeps saying, "there's only TWO genders!"

Dude i dont wanna be rude but your parents SUCK. Im sorry to say it but i had to

yeh no kidding

I really felt that episode tho

lol yeh

My parents think they them pronouns are stupid and confusing

thats how my dad is

I WILL BE YOUR NEW ONLINE DAD!

:P thx but im good for now

I'm sorry :( My parents would never do that, and they would accept me as well

you have good parents. :) i envy that. but i hope they do except you unlike mine. :)

I do :) I'm very lucky to have parents like mine, which I've learned from this stream, and I haven't really come out to them about anything(I'm heteroflexible, demigirl, and demiflexible) because I don't really feel the need to! I know that if I wanted to I definitely could and also I am here to support you!

:)

:D

*follows you

:DD ty!

I follow you too 😁

*sad godzilla noises*

Well, this sucks. Hope you get better :( *virtual hug*

*that awkward moment when your parents dont even know the device you're using can access the internet*
Oi that sux.
My parents aren't even accepting. How did they tell you they knew?

you are a cool lgbtq guy

Just realizing i wrote parents twice

As f**ked up as that feels, parents do that stuff because they love us.
Because they want to make sure we are safe, because they are concerned with our well-being.
They don’t do it to make us mad, to hurt us, to violate our privacy, even tho that’s how it feels.
It’s just because they love us.
Maybe they aren’t feeling included in your life too.
Maybe you can open up to them more and include them in your thoughts, feelings and experiences?

I don’t know 🤷‍♂️
I’m just a random person reflecting some of my own experiences with that stuff.

I hid aspects of my sexuality as a young person.
I didn’t understand my sexuality so I didn’t talk about it to them.
They later told me they wished I would have because they love all of me and that there’s no 1 thing that defines any of us.
If all I am is my sexual identity then I’m a pretty shallow, empty, boring person.
I’m SO MUCH more than that.
My sexuality is just an aspect of me, a sliver in the vast multitude of things I am.
❤️

my mom thinks she failed me and my dad just wants me to be a guy. tell me is that loving?

It’s as loving as they can be with the current understanding they have about the situation.
What I know to be true is my parents did the best they could with the ideas, thoughts and experiences they were using to base their views opinions and beliefs on at the time.

I sure af didn’t like it sometimes and it took therapy later in life to get to this understanding I have today but yeah.

Sorry you’re struggling ❤️

thx