Hang on...does your child describe themselves as your daughter or are you the only one doing that?
Obviously you're free to share here and it's good you're able to vent in a safe space but you might have more success working things out with a family therapist.
IF YOUR SON WEARS SHOWER SHOES AND PAJAMA BOTTOMS OUT TO A RESTAURANT ON FAMLIY DINNER NIGHT, OR THINKS A LIBERAL APPLICATION OF AXE BODY SPRAY IS A ACCEPTABLE SUBSTITUTION FOR A SHOWER. IF HE IS SAVING UP FOR A COOL EIGHTBALL TAT TO GO WITH HIS BOSS KNIT BEANIE. IF HE DRINKS ORGANIC IPA'S THAT SMELL LIKE STALE PISS. THEN SOCIALISM IS HIS BEST HOPE BECAUSE GOOD WOMEN KEEP CATS AND DUMP LOSERS EVENTUALLY. ONE DAY YOU WILL BE DEAD AND WHO WILL PROVIDE FOOD AND SHELTER FOR HIM AND HIS TWO NEW PIT BULL PUPPIES?