The funny thing about that is lots of us have no say as to who comprises the party. I voted for Senator Steve Daines and Congressman Matt Rosendale (whom I met and know personally). Beyond that I and my fellow Montanan's have no say as to what either party looks like. But I can truthfully tell you that the ethos, "I may hate what you say, but I love that you can say it." (Basically 'live and let live') is commonly supported here.
Internal party politics are pretty complex.