I hang out with the kids of my neighbours sometimes (they're all male), mostly on summer break. I remember we went on a train that day, and a bunch of people got on, including some girls with tops that showed off their boobs. My friend elbowed my other friend, and started giggling. Like the girls couldnt clearly see how they were reacting.
They were pointing out their bodies, and everything. And it makes me massively uncomfortable to think that, if we weren't friends, would you objectify me in the same way?
It also reminds me of when they were discussing their previous girlfriends, and the guy who i had a crush on (at the time), started talking about his previous girlfriend's butts, and how they were super flat. Well excuse you, how do you expect an 11 year old girl's butt to be!?
Basically filled with misogyny