The paradox of tolerance does not denote the end of tolerance, just where it stops.

I think the key when discussing this is to not let tolerance and intolerance be stand alone words.

I am tolerant of opposing ideas
I am tolerant of sexual preferences I don't share
I am intolerant of liars
I am intolerant of victim shaming

Yes, but those qualities are individual qualities, not the practice of an entire group, such as with white Supremacists, nazis, proud boys, III%ers, etc.

A group is made up of individuals, though I am also intolerant of groups whose stated purpose is intolerance based on peoples race or sexuality.

Well put.

Thank you