"It's either that or you know I'm right so you won't admit it."
Well that's a false dilemma, for one.
Two, how can you be right when you won't state where you live that your state "loves the police?" You can't verify it even in the hypothetical. Which, this is the internet, assume everything is hypothetical.
Three, I can just as easily use the same logical fallacy against you and say:
"Either you don't want to be taken seriously, as you suggest. Or, you are hiding your state because you know I'll find that they're defunding the police somewhere in your state thus debunking the claim you make."
Four, Continuing the the discussion over whether or not a restraint is humane would be predicated on your ability to be taken seriously. If you're a simple troll, there's no point. But if you're actually wanting to have a civil discussion, you gotta be a little more open.
If I can't take you seriously, why bother? I'd sooner speak to a brick wall and expect more of an intellectual exchange.