Incentives are the biggest motivators. I didn't figure it out until the cutest girl in my kindergarten class showed me how to tie them. All part of developing useful life skills. ;<)
How a Conservative teaches someone to tie their own shoes; You can do it! Here, watch me tie mine one more time. How a Liberal teaches someone to tie their own shoes; You can't do anything by yourself. Wait right here we need an expert to do it for you. It's someone else's fault.
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