When I was a kid, boys said offhand comments about girls. They weren't necessarily delicate. Were they polite? Not always. The men in your family I must commend. You're all flawless... perfect in your treatment of women. I truly believe you are. Were I you I would let other men know. So, as moral arbiters, you can lead the way to degenerates like me and those I have known. Many thanks for your help!