Oh, don't get me wrong... I'm glad I live in a free nation, and having all the privileges living in a free nation provides. However I have little care for nationalism and patriotism. Lately most people I met who call themselves "patriot" only differ from those who call themselves "nationalist" by the fact that the latter group is at least HONEST about it.
However should I be part of the Dutch national soccer team and win the world cup in the process, then yes, then I too will be proud. But not for being a Dutch, but for being part to make that achievement for my team happen. But then again, if I were on a team where I was the only Dutch and the rest all French or English or Chinese or American or whatever, I'd have the same pride if my team won.
But I don't know if I should be proud that the Netherlands won the Eurovision Song Contest in 2019. I mean I am not Duncan himself nor was I part of his team. Still I'm happy for Duncan, and also for Cornald Maas who has been yelling for years that the Netherlands could win the Song Contest, even though nobody took him seriously, and in the end he was right, and he was also involved in the winning act more directly.
In the end we are all part of this world, and we all bear a part of the responsibility to make it better, and whenever I know I can do something to make that happen, I will. Yet, I won't do so as a Dutch, or European or whatever, but as a living individual.
I also don't take pride in Dutch history. I think that it's important to know so I can learn from the mistakes and successes of the past, certainly. Yet, the mistakes of the past were not mine nor were the successes.
I guess I with Jerry Springer always closed his shows "Take care of yourself, and for each other". I think when you do that you already deliver a contribution to make your place better, and maybe even the world as awhole. See what I mean?