Lol
Funny meme but brings up some discussion points.
Super personal and complex/controversial topic: I‘m not prepared to say there’s one right way to feel about this.
I’ll try to reason through this anyway with a few premises I hope most would agree with:
1. Everyone (gay or straight, trans or cis) has the absolute right to decline to have sex with anyone else, for any reason or no reason at all. (Anything less than this basic premise legitimizes rape);
2. All relationships, to be successful, have to be founded on honesty. Trans people who are in transition or outwardly presenting as a gender that doesn’t “match” their genitalia probably should seek to disclose that fact to a potential partner before the relationship turns sexual;
3. If you do find yourself in a sexual encounter that doesn’t match your expectations, you have the right to decline and walk away, but try to do so in a tactful manner because trans people are very marginalized and discriminated against and you don’t want to add to their rejection. But be open-minded and don’t necessarily turn away instantly because it could still be fun and enjoyable!
Whew
That probably offended everyone in some way but I hope it didn’t
