To answer your first question , a few times and I chose to not fight with the Policeman . If you choose to be a "victim" you sometimes have to create your victimizer .
WE DESERVE AN UNLIMITED SUPPLY OF FREE PASSES FOR OUR STUPIDITY! WHITEY DOESN'T KISS OUR BUTTS ENOUGH! (Yes, it's a photoshop. But if you listen to these knuckleheads closely, that's exactly what they sound like.)