Having my ex-wife as a good friend now, I am actually wondering about that, myself. But then again, looking back on things now, some things did happen that do show sings of falling in love. Please note, falling in love is merely a hormonal thing, keeping loving each other, or remaining friends is not. The passion of falling in love will always disappear someday and the question is how your relationship goes on. No longer feeling sexually attracted to somebody doesn't mean you can't love them, and love is more than romance. Love between friends is also love. My wife and I broke up maybe we did still love each other, but it didn't work out any more in a romantic way, and we merely released each other in order to prevent one of us not being able to resist the temptation of cheating or eventually love turning into hate. I do believe my former wife and I were once in love with each other but when the falling in love was over, things didn't turn out well enough to stay together as husband and wife. Our relationship actually got better from the moment we agreed on it to divorce. And frankly I now enjoy having a female friend of whom I know it will never be anything more than friendship. I only hope that when I do find the woman who can make me happy till the end of my days, she will accept that I still see my former wife as a friend and that my former wife will not suddenly want me back as a result (as I did hear such stories). And this is actually better than losing your girl-friend because she suddenly ran away with another guy, and yes, that also happened to me, and THAT event gave me more doubts about her love to me than the love of my former wife who is now my friend. Can you imagine that?
