I would agree with you that there is unfortunately a lot of awful, anti-male, sex-negative discourse on the Left. If anyone made you feel this way I am sorry.
However, not all liberals are like this and I believe it is possible to reconcile feminist beliefs with healthy sexual attitudes toward both men and women.
If you are looking for a place to discuss sexual issues in a positive way (and have some fun checking out hot girls) please feel free to stop by.
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