When they finally accept you don't want to move to France, but then they start to argue you want to turn the U.S. into France.

WHAT IF I TOLD YOU; I'VE BEEN TO FRANCE, AND I DIDN'T LIKE IT AT ALL: BUT REGARDLESS, THE AMOUNT OF WRENCHING CHANGES WE'D HAVE TO MAKE TO AMERICAN SOCIETY, CULTURE, AND CONSTITUTIONAL STRUCTURE IN ORDER TO BECOME LIKE FRANCE WOULD MAKE YOUR HEAD SPIN