Hmm, I think there is a fundamental difference though in actively offending woke culture and merely disagreeing with it at some level. If you’re just doing you and someone accuses you of being an asshole, and you could take the time to consider if your actions, if any, actually hurt anyone... then it’s hard to say you’re truly an asshole whether you uphold your convictions without lashing back with an equal amount of irrational reactionary language. Not easy to do if you have feelings. Especially if your values are exhaustingly questioned by others or yourself.
But actively seeking to provoke others who you disagree with purely for your own self-indulgence? Yes, you’re an asshole.
Even if you are woke.