From what I understand the theory of alpha wolf was debunked by very the scientist who coined the term.
There are certainly passive and aggressive people no matter which gender or how many the believe there are. I don’t think allowing women to hold power or men taking on any role that is not authoritative makes them less of a human being in any way.
And feeling unnecessarily threatened by those who pursue that but not actually taking it away from you is ridiculous. But nonetheless admirable if your position is that they be themselves as long as they let you be yourself.
I think that’s what we all want.
And, yeah, that’s worth fighting for.