picard thinking

I think responsible sex is an important part of any healthy relationship. It's a natural human desire and the choice as to when to have it should be ultimately left to the individual.

That's fair

I am in agreement with TimidDeer on this. Besides, I am glad my first time was not with some clumsy man virgin. Men may be able to overlook that in a woman, but I would have found that very unappealing in a guy.

Ok

Haha

That's what you get for being Canadian :)

Wait. I know this is an unpopular answer these days, but that's what I did and I have no regrets. My wife and I knew how to talk through things, including sex, that helped us understand compatibility in that area, and if you date someone long enough to decide you're ready to get married, it's pretty easy to know whether you're a right fit or not. Marry based on compatibility with each others personality first and foremost, sex will naturally follow. Also, sex is for making babies, so unless you're prepared to have one dont do it. And trust me, that's one of the biggest burdens you will ever carry, very rewarding if you want it as my wife and I did, but very hard to do right and much easier when two are there to help each other. Children flourish better in stable homes where mom and dad are both present, look at the studies, there are tons of them.

True....

No, I think children only need a straight guardian of the same sex to flourish.

Nothing like waiting until you are married to find that you are incompatible in bed.

I haven’t had many partners, but by the time I met my wife I was comfortable with what I liked and so was she.

Oh and sex ends at some point, so why deny it when you are at the age to enjoy it most?

True

You're on the weekly top ten list. Congrats!

I know

"Ends" XD?! Statistically marriage --> more and better sex. Sorry to derail this for you, Mr.Michigan. My point is I don't understand the rigamarole about when you start, but most ppl can't be a stranger-showering f**k-hobos like Mr.Mario. You get better with practice, especially w/the same person, bby. :3 Especially with me- I'm sorry. I'll stop.

Yes ends. My wife has gone through menopause and her sex drive is gone. Now it effects different women differently, but mine no longer wants it. I still love her as sex is just part of a committed relationship.

Looks fade too. My Bride was a beautiful young woman, now she’s a grandmother of two and looks it. But I still see her as my bride.

A good lasting marriage is a partnership with your best friend. There’s no one I rather spend more time with.

That's... 😢 really effing cute. Congrats and enjoy your friend.

Yes and the benefits of waiting far outweigh those of not at least as far as the evidence shows. I can detail more next week when I visit again.

How so

K

:P

It should be left up to the person doing it.

Jinx, buy me some fries!

Yes

I could see if you're engaged then yes

Eeeehh....no. wait for marriage

You did it already and she's pregnant. Isn't she

Dude what did you di

Twins

Oof welp alimony for you foo

I'm kidding

Dude wait till marriage.

Perhaps

Or dream on

You ain't the boss of me

Just talked to God and he said Michigan will beat Ohio St if you wait

Jk

But seriously Wisconsin is the real deal

Yeah. On the plus side we stopped the shutout

I think marriage should be completely abolished in favor of free love. This way, everyone loves each other. I don’t understand how one can possibly want to limit oneself into having only one partner. I can only imagine how boring that is.

Though free love has a certain appeal... Boring people need love too, bby. You'll never know the joy of an extremely well-practiced water-saving two-person shower. And you can fart whenever you want.

You can always take a two-person shower with your hookup. And what does that have to do with farting whenever you want?

Not a skillful routine tho. Haha, you'll never get it because the farting is for breaking their spirit so they stay; also it's a competitive and a comfort thing. Hookups are often less fun for women too. (Ha, and before you say it, not because we feel s**tty or aren't liberated enough.)

So you’re saying that when you’re married, your partner wouldn’t mind if you fart?

Not necessarily married, but committed. Ohhhh, I love myself so much for inspiring that sentence tho. 😍

Well, I wouldn’t mind if my hookups farted on me if it’s a smell that comes from their sexy asses.

ROFL Whoa, "young people" stereotype confirmation alert! Butt stuff sighted! The idea that a fart could come from a non-ass is interesting: I guess if a lucky gal/guy farts on you with their eye you're going to marry them, eh? 😉👏👏👏

How can I be attracted to that? I never said that a fart can come from a non-ass. Unless it’s a queef.

Sounds like you're not reading enough Lovecraft, my oleaginous friend.

To prevent stds

Oh, right. But what about STD protection, like condoms?

Condoms don't cover the balls and aren't 100% effective

I knew you were gonna change your name! I thought it was gonna be Michigan420, though.

You can always make sure neither partners have STDs.