Chivalry goes a long way. Hold the door for her, pull out her chair, offer your jacket of shes cold. You know the whole thing about not kissing on the first date? Kissing her hand is an incredible gesture at the end of the night, you still get a kiss, she doesnt feel uncomfortable about it, and it's old school romance that wont be expected. Worked for me, you do what works for you and just be yourself.