A good start would be to simply go about your lives without trying to flaunt your sexuality or push your agenda on society at large. Straight people don't constantly flaunt straightness, you don't need to constantly flaunt gayness. It's not the 1960s any more, the world you are so convinced you're fighting against doesn't even exist any more. Go about your lives, love whoever you want to love, and leave other people out of it. The more you push, the more people will push back.