I understand that there are kinds of problems associated with large breasts. Flat chested women have the reverse problem, and you can't talk them into being happy with what they got. Blaming men for doing what comes natural to them makes you sound bitter, not right.
We do appreciate women, very much actually! We don't "just gawk" at them. I will put this bluntly, if you don't know who you're taking about, you shouldn't be telling them what they need to be doing...