You're right Nixie. It's not right to judge especially as you mentioned many women go into that area because of past abuse (90% of women in fact) and though some choose it willingly most I dare say don't want to be there. I doubt little girls grow up dreaming to become strippers.
I want men to be attracted to women to, I mean that's the way of nature. But I think the problem lies in telling ourselves that our self esteem is measured by how many upvotes our body parts get. We've traded love for lust, attraction for addiction, self honor for sex.
And yes, men can be used and abused also. But statistically not nearly to the degree women are. How many men six pack or dick streams do you see here? 😉
Thanks for your 2 cents. I appreciate hearing from all perspectives.