Unpopular Opinion Puffin

Seriously, what’s your problem with what the meme is saying?

Don't blame women for your issues. Sack up. Toughen up. Take charge of yourself. Easy to blame but have pride in YOURSELF. If a woman f**ked you over get a better woman. If they made you feel bad GET OVER IT.

That advice may suffice for some men, but how is a man supposed to be confident around women if he has nothing to be confident about? It is too simplistic and shortsighted to assume that all men should just wake up one day and exude confidence, especially if they have gotten nothing but rejection and/or mistreatment from women. Many women are attracted to men’s social status, and that IS where many men derive their confidence from. But who has a great deal of influence over where men end up in life? Teachers, who are mostly women. Furthermore, in most school districts it’s incredibly difficult, if not impossible to fire a bad teacher. It can take years and cost thousands of dollars to do so. This is of course thanks to the teachers’ unions...which are also mostly women. Women, especially female teachers, DO need to take responsibility for the way they treat young boys.

You will find it if you just believe in yourself. Whatever it is that inspires you to be good DO IT. Then get a new outfit. Go out and just laugh and be fun. You will be surprised. That is really what people are drawn to. You don't have to be Brad Pitt if you are just a good person and laugh. You cannot blame teachers for trying to teach you some respect. As an obvious young man you have missed the entire point of what they were trying to help you with. Two ears and one mouth god gave you for a reason. Listen more than you talk. It will help you. Be funny. Women like funny dudes with a good sense of humor. Don't be so Dark and let some light in and your soul will prosper. I promise.

"You cannot blame teachers for trying to teach you some respect. As an obvious young man you have missed the entire point of what they were trying to help you with." That's an incredibly presumptuous thing to say to someone you don't know. You cannot know what a stranger's teachers were like. It's astoundingly myopic to suggest that all men should just be able to bootstrap themselves into being confident around women, and that there are no systemic issues in our society that are hindering a great deal of men from being successful with women that need to be addressed.

By absolving women of their responsibility for the way they treat people, you are playing into the leftist dichotomy that all women are inherently innocent, and incapable of being aggressive, cruel, or evil by their own accord. You're either naive or obtuse for thinking that nasty teachers are all just "trying to teach you some respect". It's also rather condescending to suggest that I cannot distinguish when a teacher is simply an asshole.

Asshole teachers aren't the only teachers who are a problem: there's also teachers who are incompetent, lazy, and/or burnt-out from teaching. These teachers can obviously also hinder young men from becoming successful in the adult world.

Furthermore, the big teachers' unions (such as the AFT and the NEA) are all for open borders and mass immigration from the developing world. In other words, they support policies that will screw over the students they are teaching. They want "Job security for me, and none for thee!"