I am not disconnected to the poor, I deal with family members everyday who are very poor.
I try to get my family member help daily. she is on/off drugs (heroin) early 50's victim of severe molestation as a child , abt a decade in jail for trying to run over a female officer, shot 7 times, lived, health probs. was good for a decade till her wife left her a yr ago because she was back on H, wife was recovering addict too and wanted to stay clean. I dont blame her. When my family member was ok, tried to get her jobs, she would quit in a week. ssi pays 783 a month. point being she is her own worst enemy now. Wants to go on Vaca, wants a car , wasted 1200$ on a clunker and she is banned from driving for life.Attempted vehicular homicide of cop will do that..She is NOT responsible for the things that happened to her as a child but she is responsible for her adult life. I wont give her money but will give her food, clothes etc.But what i am getting at is, what little money she gets, she spends it on stupid things
I have another family member who is 30, special needs from birth, semi handi capped but handicapible if you asked me. He wastes money like crazy. I did his monthly bills for him, checking everything and he spends 20%-25% of his income (ssi, sec 8) on cigarettes and regular soda (and he is diabetic). he had a reoccurring bill of almost 20$ a month for some video game subscription (like xbox live) and he sold the x box almost a yr b4 but never cancelled the subscription. His family member (not related to me) owns a huge business and offered him a cash job, learning the fam busn (they are well to do) He wont go. Its his fault he is poor.
Some people have bad things happen to them and get stuck in a rut and I feel for them
But some others are in a rut, have a way out and wont do it.
Think of our greatest potus, at least the most eloquent one. for me its Abe Lincoln.
Lincoln was literally dirt poor. He did his lessons on the back of a coal shovel and used burnt ash as a pencil.You do not need fancy$$$ education to get by. You do however need Guidance(some ppl dont get that and thats sad) and you need determination .
The day I graduated HS, I watched all my friends drive off to their "senior week parties" down the local NJ shores. I walked home, got undressed from my good clothes, put on my work clothes and went to work. I didn't go to college , no money for it.I was an honor role student (30+ yrs ago) went to trade school on my dime, worked 80 hrs wk