" I suppose when men grow up they become beneficiaries of the system so that gives them a motive to go along with it." That's exactly what I meant - it's harder for men to free themselves from the system, because they get more advantages from it, so they woudl have to check themselves, how they took over those parts from which they profit and decide to get rid of them. In the end, it's easier for women to free themselves from the system, because they suffered more under it and do not lose much, if they decide not to accept it any longer.