an old saying when looking for a job is "don't dress for the job you have, dress for the job you want" i think the same theory applies for life. don't dress for the way you have been treated. dress for the way you want to be treated. if you want to be respected, dress respectfully. if you want to be used and objectified as a piece of meat. dress for it.
My response wasn't about getting checked out. No one can tell you where to look. It's about sexual harassment which goes beyond just looking at someone. Now if you're going to tell me I can't wear a shirt with no sleeves like the girl in the pic if I don't want to get sexually harassed then we've got a problem :)
I knew a woman once who got a massive boob job then asked this guy "what the f*ck are you looking at?" It was confusing because why else would someone get a boob job if it's not for looks?
I'm glad you can't stand those types. i also can't stand them. also I'm 100% against sexual harassment. I've been sexually harassed. it made me feel like a piece of meat. like when a girl gets all dressed up and stares at me, just to make me make eye contact with her. then she can tell her b/f that i was checking her out, just to make him jealous.. . I've been on both ends of that. the b/f, and the other guy. its a shame we live in a world with those types of ppl.
And the ones who dress provocatively all the time because they're not happy unless they feel like every guy wants them, young, old, married, taken, even gay. Those are the really scary ones.
IDK if some one said my ass looks smashing or I like your tits I would not get that upset. Yes they could phrase it more nicely. Now the I'd f**k you if I could and the your lips would look great when they're sucking my cock is just plain nasty! Especially if you say it to just some random women you never met.
Of course, the 'what's harassment and what's a compliment' debate runs purely on opinion, but the general idea is: if the 'compliment' has a sexual reference, then it's harassment.
