Whatever you say, lucky you, you met the one that will condemn jihad, or you are lying, mistaken or a Muslim yourself covering up for the religion of perpetual violence. In the end it doesn't matter which it is, every country with a sizeable Muslim population has the same problems, different people and cultures, same refusal to assimilate, same pattern of growing demands, violence and excuses, same praise from different clerics.
If there were a modern, most peaceful version of Islam someone would have noticed, instead the levels of violence increase with the size of the population, at least that hasn't changed in 1400 years.
You did get one thing right, and my old Muslim friends explained it the same way, violence committed under the name of Islam is never terrorism, we infidels are wrong to call it that. Silly us, rape, murder, bombing, all good as long as it follows tradition. They also explained why mohammed raping a six year old wasn't rape but that's a different topic so we will save that discussion for later.