Closer than I am! 16 yr old son and 15 yr old daughter. Luckily, she is the one with her head on her shoulders. I think it would destroy me more if it was my little girl giving me all this. So I definitely feel for you!
WHEN DEALING WITH A 16 YR OLD SON, SOMETIMES ITS EASY TO LET THE FRUSTRATION GET THE BETTER OF YOU; STEP BACK, BREATHE DEEP AND REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE THE ADULT; AND REJOICE IN THE FACT THAT IN 2 YRS THEY WILL BE THEIR OWN RESPONSIBILITY, FREE TO SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES OF ANY BAD DECISION SOLELY; BUT ALSO KEEP IN MIND, DHS DON'T GIVE A DAMN BOUT 18 AND OVER; BEAT DAT CRACKA ASS