Except the bathroom thing. If you are a man and dress like a woman, you will never be welcomed in the womens room. That crosses the line. Women learn to wear dresses and makeup by culture. Men keep short hair and wear ties because we're told to. We do it because thats what everyone is supposed to do. Irishmen wear kilts, it doesnt make them gay and they dont go in the ladies room. How we dress is learned. Cross dressing is always going to violate these rules. I dont think we should be harming those people, but they have to realize they are so far outside the norm that the will not be able to force acceptance. I have never worried about whether the guy next to me in the bathroom is gay, but if he's wearing a dress, I will be that face you make robert downey rolling my eyes.......