Work ethic I got. I learned that before I started school, helping with delivering the newspaper with my older siblings. my problem has always been an undiagnosed case of arthritis. Put me in a job where I don't have to do a lot of walking, I'm good. Put me in a job with a lot of walking... Many supervisors took it as me being lazy because I move so slow. After the arthritis was diagnosed, I was able to get a free ride for college under Voc Rehab. It was during that period I became the darling of the welfare department. I was using it as intended, a stop gap to help my family get through a troubled period. At the time, where I live, it was hard for a male, even with a family, to get such assistance. I saw a poster about secondary education that I could get help with. I asked my case worker about it, and she was astonished. Not used to work ethic showing up in her office. Mid 80s, not like it is today with the working poor. I was still on crutches at the time. Problem: that program was for single mothers. I was referred to the Township trustee, who also was surprised. They referred me to voc rehab. Day of my appointment, after waiting six weeks to get in, I got called for jury duty. I called voc rehab, and they didn't have any problem. They pushed my appointment back a week and said if I got selected, to call them. During the selection process, since I was still on crutches, the judge and I spoke because he was concerned about my health. I told him about my appointment with voc rehab and how they were working with me if I was selected. I even got a chuckle out of the judge by saying it was not a problem as I could use the money jury duty paid. Still, he said he'd pass on my selection because putting my life in order was more important by court standards. Made my appointment, did their tests, started college the next year. By then I was also working full time, my employer seeing I had the ethic if not the physical capability to keep up, and he worked around my schedule. Meanwhile, my wife, who said she'd get a job since I couldn't work, stayed home, never moving off the couch. Then she told her parents I was too lazy to go out and get a job. FML!
Today, I can't snag the jobs I can do because nobody wants to hire heart patients pushing 60. That's okay. I spent decades putting money into my social security account. I make more on that steady income than a lot of people I know. Then I can also do little jobs here and there.