ChumpChange - Not trying to troll you or start a flame war, just a friendly discussion. You bring up some very good points.
The point of my original meme was not that Obama had apologized for Pearl Harbor, but that I wouldn't put it past him. He pretty much apologized to the whole world for our actions post-911.
Regarding civilian casualties in WW II, that was certainly a high water mark in human history committed by all sides.
The Japanese certainly were no saints. Pre-Pearl Harbor, they had their way in China, the Phillipines, ad other places. Raping and killing civilians was the norm. During the battle of Okinawa, they were throwing their own women and children off of cliffs into the sea. That was part of the equation to deciding whether to use nukes or not. Their never surrender attitude would have led to millions dead on both sides if we'd have had to invade the mainland. They certainly didn't follow the Geneva convention either when it came to POWs. Read "Unbroken" or read up on The Bataan Death March.
The battle of Britain - Nazis, by all accounts, first accidentally bombed a city, but then the gloves were off on both sides. They bombed British cities, the Allies bombed theirs. The Nazis even used the V-1s and V-2s, very indiscriminate killing machines. Ever study the siege of Stalingrad? Civilians had to resort to cannibalism to survive.
I also like your lesson about WMDs being a deterrent. Mutually Assured Destruction (MAD) was the policy throughout the Cold War. It's also why Saddam Hussein didn't come out and say that he didn't have WMDs and let the inspectors in. In his mind, the idea that he had them is what kept Iran from invading him.
Anyhow, good talk, again, not disagreeing with you, just looking at all sides.