Rudy Giuliani says that Trump's made quiet donations to help many people (narcissists don't do that). His female and minority employees say that he gives them opportunities that no one else ever did (narcissists don't do that). He's raised what many people believe to be well-rounded and fantastic kids.
Ivanka Trump said it best, "If it’s possible to be famous and yet not really well known, that describes the father who raised me."
I'd listen more to his family, employees, friends, and associates to determine his character rather than those who only want to tear him down so HIllary can be elected.