Folks tend to project their own desires...the creator of the meme is right, it they accuse you of something they are doing it :) my daughter is a psychologist
My dad is a severe narcissistic & he has accused all of his children of nasty things we didn't/aren't doing, while not accepting his fault. His children & grandchildren have very little to do with him or my mom (because she has always enabled him.).
It's very common. I'm doing very well with little interaction. I just plan on no inheritance & still future resistance to his guilt/ manipulation. Life is good.