I think it does help shape how you view the world, but from experience i came from one of the worse traumatic issues you can have and for a long time even when I was in the military it made me bitter, but I met my wife and she helped me let go of that anger and with the help of my family and finally bringing the truth to the light i was able to let that part of me go and become who i am, a dedicated husband and great dad to two beautiful kids and my co-workers love me because im so funny but I was not always that way and I blamed everything else for my misfortunes, but now I do not i own what I do.