Well, I a) served 12 years in the Marine Corps under the first president Clinton's "don't ask, don't tell" policy, so that's kind of how I've lived my life b) I had a bisexual couple living in my basement and c) my other daughter dated a fine young African-American gentleman that we welcomed into our home the same as any of my other children's SO's.
The moral of the story? Not all conservatives are the knuckle dragging, racist, homophobe, xenophobes that you make them out to be. Maybe, just maybe, some of us see past the labels but are tired of hearing about it 24/7 and we just want to treat people as people? Get it?