Very much a blessing both of them. My daughter isn't like most kids her age, she has always been a very old soul. Her mom took off when she was two and we are very close. If she ever did anything deserving punishment, "she never does," but if she did the worst thing I could do to her is say she couldn't go out in the woods. Most parents would think taking her phone away would be the ultimate punishment but she wouldn't care at all. Most the time she leaves it in her room untouched. She reads a lot, plays guitar, and has an art tutor. I believe I am the luckiest guy on the planet when it comes to that kid, and her brother is just as great only in very different ways. Being a father is the one thing in my life I know I was meant to do. Nothing has made me feel happier or more fulfilled than my children do.