Is there a gender competition going on where you gain status the more you can turn gender into nothing?

These people can live in their little fantasy world but I won't play along. The moment they give me the pronoun shit, I'll give them this. When we are talking You are You to me. Thats the pronoun I'll use for You. When I talk to someone else about you, it's none of your go***mned business what I refer to you as because I am not talking to you. So f**k off with your asinine shit.

So in trying to be 'all' things to 'all' people, who will be attracted to them as either straight or queer? I see no appeal either way.