Choices...
When a woman and a man create a life inside a womb, a choice was made. Does the man get to choose if he doesn't want to be a father? No, it is a person growing inside the womb of the woman, and he has no choice, right? If the man chooses TO MURDER THAT LIFE, he is guilty of a crime, but the mother is guilt-free if she makes the same decision?

We can blame the gun when one can free itself from a locked gun safe, load itself, and shoot someone without being handled by a human.