Yea I'd imagine ESFJ/ENFJ would get put in the bucket regularly too - The Fe doms. Why I made this for introverted, is because an IXFX, you really yourself have to put down your sword to be the right person to be with. EXFJs operate a bit differently, they have a more active role. In terms of your mother forcing you, the world makes avatars for you, to follow. If not your mother, it may have been a father, a teacher, another women (i find this is the case most often with men), these are normal things in life. Usually its not that the person forced you to let her go, you had a choice, and you chose something. Sometimes figuring out why you chose it, is more important than what actually happened, as life is circular, time periods return as per all ancient texts.
People's interpretation is always negative = negative, but =/= true. A bad feeling does not equal bad, it can mean delay, patience, etc. People interpret "bad" to be "bad" and so flounder in the bad, don't work through it, to then be able to reach a positive interpretation to move on to their positive rewards. Life is fluxed. "You never know if something is good, unless you have something bad to compare it to." Survive the bad, to see the good. Lest you never see whats good. Therefore bad is good, and arguably, good may be bad, re video underneath.
