While your religion is all fine and dandy, again, the patriarchy ( which is dea/dying ) was heavily involved in that religion, and so its effects are going to seem more like just normal things to those that are raised in, and practice that religion, again, not saying your religion is bad, but some things in its culture, have molded, and were molded by the patriachy when it was still powerful, hence having massive social affects on the vast majority of our society. Please consider my words, and have a great day.