There is a difference, don't be closed-minded about it. I am like this. I'm a lesbian, and I'm polyamorous. I have a girlfriend and a boyfriend. My boyfriend is my best friend he and I are dating because I have learned to grow feelings and are attracted to him. But I know for a fact I'm lesbian, it's ok to be gay, lesbian, or straight. And maybe someday find an attraction to not your usual sexual orientation. Yes very similar to bisexual, but it's also different because bisexual is openly attracted to both gender while me for myself, am homoflexible because I'm not attracted to both genders, in attracted to females with a slight chance of falling in love with a male and being attracted to them, that is what homoflexible is. It's not bisexual it is a thing all on it's own.