The crazy thing is, I bet some people would LOVE that texture. Autism is weird because of the extremes on either side of things, so my daughter loves vegetables and hates meat textures, but I love meat and hate vegetable textures. It's not "a" spectrum, it's a spectrum of spectrums. :D
I'm going to assume you mean accepted and congratulations having a partner who understands you is a wonderfully life changing thing for a neurodivergent person.