I find that appealing in a man, too. And women. It's not sexist to like that kind of ability in someone. What's sexist is expecting ALL women to cook because that is "their job". It's not. Their "job" is to be human, and some humans hate cooking. The humans of us who enjoy cooking, women included, should not have to worry about doing it because they might be "oppressing their people" by performing a "stereotypical feminine or masculine act"
I'm female, and I LOVE to cook. I love women who cook. I love men who cook. I think it's sexy. Yes SEXY not SEXIST.