. . . no shit trans men arnt women, trans men are men, saying trans men are women is transphobic, and no member of the lgbt+ community (except terfs and the lgb alliance but they suck) would ever say that.
ok, fine. but trying to 'correct' them to therapy is helping anyone, its only going to make mental health problems worse. the best and only thing you can do is to love and accept them for who they are. and as a member of the lgbt+ community myself, I can personally say that the love and support from my friends and family rly made a difference