I'm not fully out at school (most teachers know and use my name and pronouns, but the majority of students don't know), and today some of the boys were being pretty wild, so a girl said "Sperrt die MΓ€nner weg!" (German for "Lock up the men!") as a joke. My male and female best friends and I agreed, and the boys told us that this is stupid and we would have to lock ourselves up, not understanding that it's a joke that targeted their very "alpha male" behavior and not a gender. I really had to stop myself from explaining that it doesn't even apply to me, a trans girl.
Okay, I hope you're doing well.
But why does your family have a stalker? What do they want? (only answer this if you're comfortable and especially safe sharing that, I don't know if it might be too much information)