More likely... It was a traumatic event for her that many years ago, but it was "just another night" for all of the people she may have told or confided in at that time. Think about a traumatic event in your life? Death of a mother/father/brother, now you probably remember who you first talked to, but if as many years has passed as had there, they probably won't recall.
Question: Your employer picks the providers they offer, they pick the plans they offer, they pick the coverage they want to pay for/offer - Oh, but it's the Dems fault, not your employer's? Same people who blame immigrants for taking their jobs when the employer didn't want to pay you a living wage. Repubs are doing very good at making the working class vote against their own interests more and more.