Only you made reference to "alternate thinking", so credit where it's due. You're correct, there is NO "alternate thinking to apply". You are vague & abstract with your "applied alternate thinking" of that "Love is love" mantra. Not so with what you actually mean: adult-child sex...
You're catching on, now apply that thinking to the "love is love" mantra of the radical extremists of the LBGTQ-P+/AUTOGYNEPHILIACS-TRANSGANDERS/MAP-YAP-NAMBLA community...voila