My advice: Keeping to 2-3 gachas is reasonable, 1-2 if GI/WW/HSR-sized. Skip Endfield for now or drop 2-3 gachas since it's a large game (bigger than many AAA open-worlds and RPGs on the market, gonna get bigger with future patches). Avoid playing gachas just to keep up login streaks and do dailies. Emerging research shows majority of people don't realize they're chronically online based on the content they consume (streaming shows, live-service games, music, socials).
Varsapura, Nexus Anima, and Petit Planet aren't out yet. Even without them, Hoyo's game pool is so saturated. I don't know anyone who keeps up with every Hoyogame. Add all the dailies, weeklies, LT story events, dialogue fluff and it's another job and a half. Maybe two extra jobs on busier patches.