You are so full of shit I don't know where to begin. Many men, as well as women do want abortion to be legal (and it currently is BTW), and many women as well as men would like more restrictions (or an outright ban). Gay marriage is not a men's/women's issue. Men don't bear the burden of having kids if they're not ready? A woman can use birth control. If they get pregnant and choose to keep it against the man's wishes (and currently the choice is entirely in their hands) they can sue for child support.
As for men "running shit" look around. There are female politicians, female ceos, and more anti gender discrimination laws than you can count. Women are actually more likely to go to college now than men. The only thing that might be truly holding women down at this point is their own choices, and I say this as a woman.