Romans 8:28 "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." Trust Jesus as your savior and I guarantee you'll find the only way that matters. I did! And it totally changed my view of people, the world, and life in general! Now I don't really worry about where I'm going, because I know that He's directing my life and it will all play out as He plans, and He always plans for my own good, whether I realize it or not as it happens.