I'm for equal treatment and fairness for all women, but feminism is a blatant declaration of war against men and patriarchy in the disguise of women's rights.
No, it is not anti-male at all, unless you assume maleness entitles you to a special set of privileges women are not entitled to. Is it anti-patriarchy? Hell yes.
Yeah unfortunately 3rd wave feminism has tarnished the good will of the cause. Im not even for equal treatment because men and women dont do equal work. For physically demanding professions, its practically impossible
Patriarchy is a great thing, because you don't want a society of emotionally based creatures making decisions based off how they feel. That's not a downgrade comment to women, it's just the way it is.